still plenty of flowers
October 11, 2008Today was a bit of a downer. Stuff just didn’t feel right…I know this is to be expected. I visited the gravesite for the first time since the interment. Misty has a beautiful location. Fitting.
I have heard a few times that even if you aren’t emotionally upset, that the grieving process still makes you tired. I can attest to that. I’m doing pretty ok, but totally exhausted.
Anyway, not much to say today…here is an image from the day of the interment. I thought it was a beautiful little time. Olivia got to leave a flower on the casket as we left.
PS – with regards to the Acadia pictures, yes…whatever I post, you are free to use. If I’m reserving rights, I’ll limit the download options.
Hey bro.. God bless and remember you are human and not superman .. so get plenty of rest and we’ll keep praying for ya.. Tbone out
Darren
How beautiful! and yes grieving is a process, this to shall pass! Our prayers continue for you and baby Olivia, Darren you are so blessed and have a wonderful support team behind you as well as your loving family.
God Bless,
Pam and Family
Good morning Darren,
After I go to your website each morning I then go to Bible Gateway to see the verse for the day. (By the way I tuned into Bible Gateway through your website – thanks!) The verse for today is: My sould finds rest in God alone, my salvation comes from Him. Psalm 62:1
I pray that you find physical, emotional, and spiritual rest in our Savior today.
I listened to the radio show. It was great – thank you for sharing it. And your pictures are great. Looking forward to seeing more.
I pray that God will pour out His love and grace upon you and Olivia today.
I agree with Tbone, you are only human. You loved her for so long, you do not have to make any excuses as to how you feel. Some days will be harder then others. Just keep your faith.
I have to agree with the others…you are merely human. Don’t expect something grandoise from yourself when it comes to grieving. You have a right to be tired and upset. i just pray that you will feel God’s love and feel at peace today with Olivia.
As for the picture..what a beautiful location! The huge tree right behind her is absolutely gorgeous just right for a beautiful woman who made a difference in so many lives!
Darren, lifting you up this morning under the beautiful sky and as always praying your strength. Russ and I cover you everyday. We love you, Gail
Darren…when my mom died, my pain was so deep, at times, I did not think I would make it through another day. It was at those times, God heard the prayers of those close to me and He brought me through another day. We are praying.
Darren,
Allow God to comfort you, as I know you are, and remember there will be days for years to come and that will be okay, too. This first year will be filled with first year markers … some great, some good, some tired, and some just plain sad and painful. And, in all those times, God is holding you and Olivia in His mighty hand. Imagine that and there will be overwhelming peace. He is good all the time. Grab hold to His mighty plans. You are amazing!
Love you both, Debra
You can be where you are at.
Thanks for always keeping it real, even when things are not okay.
Prayers for you today and always.
I keep meaning to ask you….. the banner is still the same. So I checked other people’s who still have it and it’s still the old one. Did I hear correct and you said that it would change automatically? Or did I dream that?
Hope the salsa brought a little smile…
Life is a journey with God being the keeper of our map and Jesus the keeper of the key that unlocks all the treasures. Olivia is a big treasure, a gift from heaven which as you know and believe you were choosen to be her Daddy. Your pain will lessen as you also know, just will never leave entirely. FAITH will be your compass to guide you on this beautiful journey as God continues to lead you through the rough territory you are now in. Just don’t choose to remain in the valley and dwell and miss the mountain peaks with Olivia. You both need each other, that is why you are traveling together. God has the trip all planned out and you can let him carry you for a while and rest in his arms.
Oh My….What a beautiful picture. It looks like Misty and all her family and friends have such a wonderful area to look over. It really looks so peaceful. Thank you for sharing. I also wanted to say thank you for allowing us to use your pictures on our computer. I plan on taking the one with the road…It allows me see what God has created in this world…and I get to see a place that I have never been to. Thank You Darren! Hang in there…We are thinking about you and little Olivia..
Kariann
Darren, rest in the arms of the Lord. I am praying that you feel His presence and the warmth of His embrace.
You remain in our prayers. Life has been crazy around our house lately and I’ve slacked off on comments but I’m always checking in on this site.
Your pictures are so amazing – just like your faith, your endurance, your strength, and your love – for the Lord, your family, and life!
What a beautiful resting place! As the others said already..you are only human! Although I do not know you personally I have been deeply touched by your writing and have felt the love you had for your wife Misty.
You and Olivia will remain in my prayers.
I was given a link to your blog a few months ago and just never got around to reading it…until it was too late. I am SO sorry that I did not read it sooner and join in with all of those other people and pray for Misty. I truly wish I had. She was lucky to have a husband so devoted to not only her, but Olivia and God. I cannot imagine going through what you guys did and being that strong. I am praying daily for you and Olivia. I am sure you are going to do wonderful with her. With God you can do anything!
I am sure things are tough right now. You are so strong and your story continues to witness to others. Thank you for that. This is a beautiful post and I thank you for sharing it.