Comments on: A Missing Mommy Mothers Day

By: Darlene

Darlene — Tue, 26 May 2009 19:34:17 +0000

praying for you. thank you for sharing your heart in truth, Darren.

By: Katy Coleman

Katy Coleman — Fri, 22 May 2009 23:21:30 +0000

Those pictures take my breath away, Darren. What a beautiful thing for you and Olivia to be able to gaze at Misty’s face with quiet relection. Our hearts ache for you and Olivia as you long for your Misty. We will be praying for comfort and continued strength for you. You have our love. Josh & Katy

By: Tammy

Tammy — Mon, 18 May 2009 13:14:33 +0000

Hope for you and a “vision” that will give you and your daughter excitement for this year. In Christ, your new friend.

By: Chris

Chris — Thu, 14 May 2009 19:23:56 +0000

Praying for you Darren…..love you man! Thanks for sharing your day.

By: S

Wed, 13 May 2009 13:51:06 +0000

Thank you for sharing such beautiful private moments. My heart breaks every time I think of how much Miss Olivia misses her mommy. The two of you are such beautiful souls. Your love sure does shine. God bless you both.

By: courtney

courtney — Tue, 12 May 2009 23:47:01 +0000

I love that you are open and honest. That is what makes you so absolutely amazing.

The headstone is beautiful.

Olivia’s words made me cry.

Love you.

By: purejoy

purejoy — Tue, 12 May 2009 16:36:00 +0000

i prayed for you on mother’s day, and for the ability to find a measure in joy in today as you honor not only your own mother and MIL, but also misty. i loved how you spent part of your day with her and how you are treasuring the memory of your sweet wife. your transparency through all of this has been heartrending, to be sure, but i have been so blessed by your story. it is my honor to pray for you and your gorgeous daughter. so loved by her mommy, and so treasured by her daddy. love is the divine gift.

By: Dania

Dania — Tue, 12 May 2009 13:03:53 +0000

Good Morning Darren,

Oh it’s hard for you to bear this burden. When you feel like this, being honest helps others to carry you through with prayers and comfort. Thanks for your transparency!! I pray you are comforted today!!

Lately I have been dealing with some pretty serious health issues and other things things that feel like insurmountable pressures and obstacles.

It’s funny, back in September I didn’t view God as I do now. I was bitter with Him for taking Misty and not healing her, much like I have been angry for the loss of my mother from the same exact condition as your bride.

But as I have read this blog and check frequently for your updates, what God has done in your life.. and what you’ve allowed him to do has SO been a witness to me. To not go to the dark place of bitterness and anger, but to ask Jesus Christ for daily rescue. And lately, EVERY TIME I ask for His help, He delivers me. Your story has given me strength. So though you are missing your lady, and sad (which could just be plain old sadness and not depression) and my heart aches for the emptiness that I can sympathize with.. just know that your perseverance has done MUCH for others. Including me, a stubborn little stiffnecked New Jerseyan Isrealite.

Be encouraged today.

By: Michele

Michele — Tue, 12 May 2009 05:14:06 +0000

Beautiful – and all that is wrapped up in that one word.

Thank you for being so transparent with your life.

You are a blessing to your daughter – she will thrive as you continue to raise her in the love, grace, and truth of the Lord.

I LOVE Misty’s headstone! Your taste is exquisite. It is gorgeous – just like her. : )

By: juliet

juliet — Tue, 12 May 2009 00:41:49 +0000

Thanks for being so honest Darren. I am praying for you both – can’t imagine what it all must feel like.

Beautiful, heart-breaking pictures.